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Suppress Women by: Maribeth Q. Galindo July 23, 2008

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                    Am talking to those married and single women who could not express themselves or have the difficulty of expressing their emotions…I am just wondering why they think and feel that way? Why is it hard for them to tell their feelings? Is it because they have fear of what other people will say? Is it because they are ashamed of being the center of criticism? Is it because they don’t want to be ridiculed by the people surrounds them if they do this and that? Is it because they wanted to maintain the image that they portray to society? These are some of my questions that cling on my mind every time I read in the newspaper news about women who are in the disadvantage position…I have realize if women have these doubts in their mind then erase it coz if they do not, it will make their life unhappy and miserable. Can you imagine living in this world that are psychologically, emotionally and sexually suppress. You kill yourself softly.

                      Like for instance, those women who doesn’t even know how much is the salary of their husband and very hesitant to ask because they might think that their husband will shout at them when they do…Erase these thoughts, have the courage to speak up your mind, if you do it will lessen your doubts and worries. Indeed, those women who think that their husband has an affair with other woman and they are hesitant to clarify because they might think that their husband will get mad at them…Erase these thoughts, have the courage to confront your husband, if you do it will lessen you burden and agony. Moreover, if you feel like fucking then tell your husband. Anyway, it’s not your neighbor’s husband. You have all the rights by all means even sexual rights. So, erase all doubts in your mind so that you can show you’re real you….

                       For those single women who are tamed and reserved and hesitant to show   flirty act to the guy they like, be naughty sometimes and be flirt sometimes!!!! Do not wait for the guy to express his feelings towards you. What if the guy has no especial feelings for you at all or the guy is “torpe” what are you going to do? You’re going wait?  What an agonizing feeling? You do the first move and tell the guy that you like him, you miss him, you adore him, you hated him, you’re mad at him or anything that you wanted to tell him. Anyway, expressing our feeling is not a human rights violation nor it will not make you an immoral person. You cannot also be sued by any crime and you will suffer in jail for telling what you have felt. No republic act or executive order that prohibits us people to express our suppress emotions….Thus, suppressed women get out from your shell and live life to the fullest. If you were to ask, is that a big sin of expressing ourselves? What do you think?         

 

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1. ivy - July 28, 2008

i agree ms g. with your assertion.being expressive not just with our partners but as well as to our peers would always free us from the grudges we are experiencing. i guess this would be one of the benefits they could get out of thier being “expressive”. i can’t see any problem with regards of being vocal with your emotions,. if that would be the solution of freeing yourself from the agony and pain your experiencing, they why not do it right? but i have a question? y do we need to ask or confront A guy with our doubts if that person would just give us a “total LIE” answer? and the guy would let us believe with his words that were not TRUE? what’s the use of the confrontation? ms. G is confronting a guy would just free us from the pain we are experiencing? or it would also make us damn believing with their lies? coz of course, men would not tell the truth(am talking in genral). thou, some are, but mostly not!

2. Elnie T. Gambong - August 28, 2008

Gud Pm maa’m,
In our age of MODERNITY of ViEWS, I agree Filipino women ar still surppressed with regards to their emotions and verbal communication why? Because of the retained values passed on from generation, even of this modern technology, women have still inhibitions and fears of being critisized when expressing frankly if she likes a guy of showing a guy she’s in love with which cause frustration, depression and anxiety. That’s why women think ahead befor acting some moves in order to avoid being put in an awkward position of being humiliatec. Women are put in their place as being just the receiver not the doer of every action, to be submissive rather than dominant to being coy rather than liberated. Blame it on our CULTURE when there is so much taboo esp. on male, female relationship, sexual desire rather than total freedom of expression,decision and self image,..=’)..THANK UUUUUU

3. Elnie T. Gambong - August 28, 2008

Gud Pm maa’m,
In our age of MODERNITY of ViEWS, I agree Filipino women ar still surppressed with regards to their emotions and verbal communication why? Because of the retained values passed on from generation, even of this modern technology, women have still inhibitions and fears of being critisized when expressing frankly if she likes a guy of showing a guy she’s in love with which cause frustration, depression and anxiety. That’s why women think ahead befor acting some moves in order to avoid being put in an awkward position of being humiliatec. Women are put in their place as being just the receiver not the doer of every action, to be submissive rather than dominant to being coy rather than liberated. Blame it on our CULTURE when there is so much taboo esp. on male, female relationship, sexual desire rather than total freedom of expression,decision and self image,THIS is all I can say mam..=’)..THANK UUUUUU


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